what a jerk. and the only response that type of jerk will accept is a "yes, of COURSE here's my number!" if you say no, they demand an explanation. if you explain, your explanation isn't good enough and they try to argue you out of it. if you say you're not interested, they whine that ~you're~ the jerk for not giving them a ~fair chance~. indeed, it is a no-win situation where they have already set it up so that if you don't do what they want you to do, then obviously you're the asshole. ugh ugh jerks. *hugs to you*