Urgh. The dumb ones just go home and tell themselves bitches be cray-cray, yo. They're not bright enough to grasp the concept of privilege, never mind that they actually have it. They also seem to figure women have it SO EASY OMG, because we just have to sit back and let men do all the work of seducing and wooing, etc etc. Utter bullshit.

You're not insane for being cautious. Guy was being a jerk after that initial exchange. The smart thing to do would have been to BACK THE FUCK OFF and let you enjoy your damn meal.