I freakin' hate that the patriarchy has convinced men that women are puzzle boxes and you just have to figure out how to get her to grudgingly go along with your plans. What's wrong with you? What's wrong with male entitlement? What's wrong with a guy who apparently doesn't know there's a serial rapist in Toronto? Because I live in a different country, on the west coast, and just by listening to my female friends in Toronto, I know that. Oh, wait, I see the difference now...

I'm glad you are safe, and I hope this guy thinks about your conversation on some level.