I know you can't help blaming yourself. But making one small mistake one time in all the years you've had him does not add up to "your fault", still less failing him or failing his trust, and it most certainly does not nullify the many years of love and care you have given him. You have been a fantastic mom to Marinetti. But you are human. As well say it's partly his fault for choosing to go out the window. He is only a cat, and did not realize that's a really bad idea. You are only human, and therefore don't remember to close every window every time in the thousands of nights you've had him.
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I know you can't help blaming yourself. But making one small mistake one time in all the years you've had him does not add up to "your fault", still less failing him or failing his trust, and it most certainly does not nullify the many years of love and care you have given him. You have been a fantastic mom to Marinetti. But you are human. As well say it's partly his fault for choosing to go out the window. He is only a cat, and did not realize that's a really bad idea. You are only human, and therefore don't remember to close every window every time in the thousands of nights you've had him.
Still hoping and praying for a happy ending.
*hugs*