Oh yeah, that makes sense. I agree that a lot of leftists glorify suffering and it weirds me out, especially when it also includes public displays of suffering. But I also think some of privilege can be undeserved, like some people being able to do things that should just be considered universally shitty but being given a pass to do it, e.g. "boys will be boys", white people who do horrible things "just" being troubled rather than, y'know, awful people, etc.