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Yesterday afternoon, the class having wrapped up, I found myself on a patio sipping beer with my classmates and one of the instructors. I was the youngest person in our group, and the only woman. Behind us, a group of rowdier and older drunks were conducting their own inebriation session. Construction on the road provided a steady soundtrack of industrial-level pain.

A woman walked by, dressed all in black, wearing a niqab. As if to prove that street harassment happens no matter how many clothes a woman is wearing, one of the guys behind us started shouting at her.

"Terrorist!"

"Go back to your own country!"

"What's wrong with you?"

I stood up, turned around, glared, and in my best teacher voice, asked one of the men, "And what's wrong with you?" The guys at my table turned around to stare at the offenders as well.

The men at the other table hastily started making apologies for their friend: "He's drunk!" "He's crazy!" I sniffed disdainfully, sat back down, and returned to my beer and lively conversation.

Date: 2010-07-30 03:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sqrt-joy.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2010-07-30 03:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tanyahp.livejournal.com
"Likes" this! May all anti-racists stand up under such circumstances!

Date: 2010-07-30 03:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kappsgurl.livejournal.com
I think we've all said some pretty stupid things while drunk, but that one is just beyond me. I don't think he gets to use that excuse.

Date: 2010-07-30 03:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] corwin77.livejournal.com
You're awesome! You are like a super hero but with more sensible clothes.

Date: 2010-07-30 04:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ghostwes.livejournal.com
I hope he learned his lesson. He actually might, since it sounds like his friends weren't interested in defending him so much as apologizing for him being an asshole. That's gotta be embarrassing for the guy, drunk or not. Maybe embarrassing enough for him to take it to heart. I've witnessed similar epiphanies first hand, so who knows.

I also hope the woman heard this exchange so she knows that there are Canadians who aren't willing to tolerate this racist crap.

Date: 2010-07-30 04:14 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] lienne.livejournal.com
I love you, Sabs. :D

Date: 2010-07-30 05:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kynn.livejournal.com
yay you!

Date: 2010-07-30 05:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] esizzle.livejournal.com
my hero!

Date: 2010-07-30 05:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] springheel-jack.livejournal.com
The scenario might, I suspect, be a bit different here.

Date: 2010-07-30 07:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] northbard.livejournal.com
I'm going to take a stand and say I'm disappointed in you. You passed up a perfectly good justification for a full-on drunken bar-brawl WITH MORAL SUPERIORITY ON YOUR SIDE!!

Oh sure, good on you for calling a dick a dick..but...no whuppings?

Date: 2010-07-30 10:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pofflewomp.livejournal.com
WELL DONE!!!!!!

My dad annoyed me greatly the other day saying he was on the bus "next to a terrorist woman who changed seat because she did not want to sit by a man." I just said, "much as I dislike the niqab myself, I wouldn't associate it with "terrorist" like that," and he apologised half-heartedly.

I do really hate seeing women with their heads covered when it seems to be a religious thing, because I find the idea that women should have to hide parts of themselves from the supposed unstoppable gushing of male lust both absurd and offensive, but AAAARRRGH! it doesn't mean it is anyone's business but that of the person wearing it for fuck's sake, or that my dislike of it would permit me to be offensive or upset someone over it! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

Date: 2010-07-30 11:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trias-cube.livejournal.com
Good for you for standing up to him!

Date: 2010-07-31 12:09 am (UTC)

Date: 2010-07-31 04:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thegiantkiller.livejournal.com
Well done and thank you! You set the bar high.

Date: 2010-07-31 02:08 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] ironed_orchid
Good response.

Date: 2010-07-31 09:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] smhwpf.livejournal.com
Yay you! Faced with that sort of behaviour, many disapprove but few speak up.

Date: 2010-08-01 03:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sashajwolf.livejournal.com
Well done you.

Date: 2010-08-02 10:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rohmie.livejournal.com
[livejournal.com profile] sabotabby = made of awesome.

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