Let's see if this gratitude thing works
Mar. 23rd, 2020 08:36 pmA FB friend with whom I have many and frequent disagreements asked people what they're grateful for. My general response to having a year from hell that culminates in a civilization-shaking plague is not to be grateful about it, but there actually are a few things and I'd be remiss if I didn't state them.
Part of the reason why I don't keep track of things I'm grateful for is that I feel like it's tempting capricious fate/the uncaring universe/the Elder Gods to talk about good things, lest you paint a target on them. So assume a knock wood after all of these things:
I am grateful that:
There, did I do it right?
Part of the reason why I don't keep track of things I'm grateful for is that I feel like it's tempting capricious fate/the uncaring universe/the Elder Gods to talk about good things, lest you paint a target on them. So assume a knock wood after all of these things:
I am grateful that:
- No one I know or love has died yet
- I am still getting paid for now and have a roof over my head
- My cat hasn't gotten worse
- I have a supportive online community that is keeping me sane-ish
- I've cultivated an inner life and can handle solitude
- I went vegan and had to learn how to be resourceful in cooking, particularly with canned foods well before this
- No one in the neighbourhood likes the same ramen that I do
- I put so much of my work online already and don't have to necessarily scramble from scratch
- People in my neighbourhood are mostly serious about social distancing
- There's a thread on the caremongering group that is about what we're going to do when all this is over because sometimes it seems like this will never be over
- You're reading this, and I'm grateful for you
There, did I do it right?