Linkage and such
Apr. 19th, 2010 05:38 pmLet's start it off with the Horrifying Story of the Day. After one half of an elderly gay couple was hospitalized after a fall, Sonoma County douchebags confined the couple to two separate nursing homes and sold off their possessions. One of the men died alone, the other was eventually released from the nursing home and is now impoverished.
Um, I can't even deal after reading that. Here's a picture of a puppy:

Anyway, apparently what you can do is blog about this, pass it on over Facebook or Twitter. Send a letter to the local paper, the Santa Rosa Press Democrat, at letters@pressdemocrat.com.
I really liked Adam Savage's speech to the Harvard Humanist Society.
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ironed_orchid: Are you worried that you're not a smug enough liberal? Check out the new ethical dilemmas. (Spoiler: It's okay to pee in the shower. Um, good to know. Please don't pee in mine.)
The worst vehicle in the world, probably driven by the worst person in the world.
Um, I can't even deal after reading that. Here's a picture of a puppy:
Anyway, apparently what you can do is blog about this, pass it on over Facebook or Twitter. Send a letter to the local paper, the Santa Rosa Press Democrat, at letters@pressdemocrat.com.
I really liked Adam Savage's speech to the Harvard Humanist Society.
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The worst vehicle in the world, probably driven by the worst person in the world.
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Date: 2010-04-19 09:47 pm (UTC)that first story is so sad though
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Date: 2010-04-19 09:48 pm (UTC)Why?
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Date: 2010-04-19 09:51 pm (UTC)he wouldn't give two shits about anybody's rights if he were straight, his interest is purely selfish
he's also ridiculously judgmental of the identities of others i.e. flat out denies the "legitimacy" of bisexual people and is "skeptical" of transgender people
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Date: 2010-04-19 09:53 pm (UTC)Dan Savage is a total douche.
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Date: 2010-04-19 09:53 pm (UTC)i was reading and wondering why that speech wasn't stupid as fuck
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Date: 2010-04-19 11:57 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 01:37 am (UTC)Bingo!
So disappointing.
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Date: 2010-04-19 10:25 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2010-04-20 12:08 am (UTC)What I can't figure out is why the younger and supposedly healthy partner also got put into a nursing home, and why/how they ignored things like wills and powers of attorney. I don't know if maybe something also happened healthwise to the younger partner that resulted in him being placed in the nursing home, and maybe the county actually didn't know about the various legal documents because the couple didn't have any other friends or family to advocate for them, or whether it really was a case of deliberate bigotry.
But a lot of the activism happening around this seems to be focussed on trying to get one media outlet or another to do some kind of investigative piece on the situation, and hopefully that will shed some light on it. It's a disturbing situation no matter what, but it would be good to be more clear on exactly what flavour of disturbing.
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Date: 2010-04-20 01:47 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 01:45 am (UTC)http://nclrights.wordpress.com/2010/04/19/nclr-launches-visibility-campaign-to-expose-tragic-case-where-sonoma-county-separated-elderly-gay-couple-sold-off-all-belongings/
Clay Greene and his partner of 20 years, Harold Scull, lived in Sebastopol, California. As long-time partners, they had named each other beneficiaries of their respective estates and agents for medical decisions. As 2008 began, Scull was 88 years old and in deteriorating health. Greene, 11 years younger, was physically strong, but beginning to show signs of cognitive impairment. As Scull’s health declined, it became apparent that they would need assistance, but the men resisted outside help.
In April of 2008, Scull fell down the front steps of their home. Greene immediately called an ambulance and Scull was taken to the hospital. There, the men’s nightmare began. While Scull was hospitalized, Deputy Public Guardians went to the men’s home, took photographs, and commented on the desirability and quality of the furnishings, artwork, and collectibles that the men had collected over their lifetimes.
Ignoring Greene entirely, the County petitioned the Court for conservatorship of Scull’s estate. Outrageously referring to Greene only as a “roommate” and failing to disclose their true relationship, the County continued to treat Scull as if he had no family. The County sought immediate temporary authority to revoke Scull’s powers of attorney, to act without further notice, and to liquidate an investment account to pay for Scull’s care. Then, despite being granted only limited powers, and with undue haste, the County arranged for the sale of the men’s personal property, cleaned out their home, terminated their lease, confiscated their truck, and eventually disposed of all of the men’s worldly possessions, including family heirlooms, at a fraction of their value and without any proper inventory or determination of whose property was being sold.
Adding further insult to grave injury, the county removed Greene from their home and confined him to a nursing home against his will—a different placement from his partner. Greene was kept from seeing Scull during this time, and his telephone calls were limited. Three months after Scull was hospitalized, he died, without being able to see Greene again.
Here's a pdf of the complaint:
http://www.nclrights.org/site/DocServer/Greene_v_Sonoma_County.pdf?docID=7461
I am inclined to believe theft might indeed have been a motive because as the complaint lays out, they'd worked in Hollywood and apparently had an extensive collection of memorabilia. The younger man was indeed found incompetent and apparently pressured to sign legal documents, as page 9 details. I had to quit reading there.
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Date: 2010-04-20 01:49 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-19 10:33 pm (UTC)God, I remember a time in lefty politics when the words "individual solution" were a big put-down. Now it's the opposite.
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Date: 2010-04-19 10:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 01:36 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 01:06 am (UTC)I fret all the time about ethical consumer stuff, and hope it makes a difference if enough people act on their frets too.
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Date: 2010-04-19 10:51 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2010-04-20 12:38 am (UTC)I will note that the Ethical Dilemmas I linked to were written for Australian audiences, so a couple may not apply to people in other countries. And if anyone has a problem with that, well, consider how much stiff if written for US audiences and get other it.
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Date: 2010-04-20 12:40 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 12:44 am (UTC)The bag thing isn't for plastic bags, but reusable bags which are made of... plastic, or other non-biodegradable substances. They, along with plastic bags are due to be banned some time soon.
Also, peeing is the shower is only okay if you haven't already gone one step further and installed a grey water system to channel water from shower, sink, and washing machine to garden sprinklers. In that case you don't want to pee in the shower.
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Date: 2010-04-20 12:51 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 12:52 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 12:49 am (UTC)Actually, dogs are omnivores so can be healthily vegetarian, although my doggie won't eat vegetables apart from chips and peas.
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Date: 2010-04-20 12:51 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 02:05 am (UTC)Speaking of puppies, though, this random puppy I'd never seen before in my life crashed through my front door last night, zoomed through the house, and played "Can you catch me??" in the garage. Its owner's friend followed it and apologized for the puppy's behavior. It was a pretty amazing experience all around.
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Date: 2010-04-22 05:39 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 02:33 am (UTC)I'll settle for less homicidal rage at the stupidity inherent in the "new ethical dilemmas" link instead.
The next time I hear some idiot whinge about how horrible eating meat is for the environment, I may have to eat THEM. >:|
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Date: 2010-04-20 10:02 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2010-04-22 06:16 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 02:44 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-20 02:56 am (UTC)Best comment re the truck:
Date: 2010-04-20 04:38 am (UTC)Re: Best comment re the truck:
Date: 2010-04-22 06:02 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-22 06:01 pm (UTC)I almost keyed my monitor just now.
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Date: 2010-04-22 09:30 pm (UTC)...but I also can't deal with people peeing in the shower. Showers are serious.
"Op. 8 No. 9 in C sharp minor," Scriabin
I was about to ask which one it is, but suddenly realized a description of "doo-dee-doo's" would not help. I don't remember any of them by title, because I am bad.
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Date: 2010-04-23 01:53 am (UTC)